Thanks!
I don't get a kernel panic now.
This "sortof" works with vga, however its stuck with silly displaymodes.
Acutually... this is really odd, when i plug in hdmi dvi and hdmi i can get 1920x1200 on the hdmi output... but all i get is a blue screen and on dvi i get no signal:S
BUT
This is great news anyway considering the fact that this works at all, i can open iMovie now and it doesn't complain it doesn't have QE support for instance so its a huge step in the right direction!
And a image to confirm this.
Oh and i should add, this works great with the starcraft2 beta!
Edit 2:
Using a hdmi2dvi cable made it possible to use dvi in 1920x1200 now, so i guess that solved it for me, well "solved" as it's a silly solution but still better than nothing!