I freaking made it!
I just succesfully managed to compile Lion Kernel using XCode 4.2 for Snow Leopard.
Fixed bronzovka patch to work with FX-4100:
Finder working 64-Bit.
bronzovka,
In case you read this.
Thanks a lot for the Kernel patch and especially for realising the source code.

If you would not have done, I would have been out of luck...
Will post the fixed Kernel later in case someone needs it!
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Darwin Kernel 11.3.0 (LION) fixed for vm_resident.c not to panic on AMD FX-4100:
Download:
http://ifolder.ru/29835262
//edit: 11.4.0:
http://osx86.co/f100/10-7-4-amd-kernel-t7687/
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Darwin Kernel 10.7.0 (SNOW LEOPARD) fixed for vm_resident.c not to panic on AMD FX-4100:
Download:
http://ifolder.ru/30332779
//edit: fixed the patch for xnu-1504.15.3 / for 10.6.8 to work without old kext:
http://www.xup.in/dl,86069918/mach_kernel/
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@weller99
most likely yes, i am not familiar with either virtualbox nor vmware, sorry