Ok, everything works so far, just have to edit the marvelyukon vendor id and hopefully it will speed things up. For now I'm using my Leopard install as of writing this with my firewire shared connection.

Full 3d, front row works, itunes works, optical audio out works, everything works.

I will write a guide and post it.

Thanks for your help roisman, even ethough I ended up using anotehr DVD LOL