thanks for the very informative response. I read someplace that the hal40kext that was standard supported my card, so i tried to use it without installing any injector type kext and it actually showed my card in the about this mack/more info/etc... it named it and everything. However it only displayed on my external monitor and not my internal monitor. So i deleted the GeForce kexts with sudo rm -r GeForce* and after a reboot it displayed on my internal and external but now in properties it didnt list my card. So i uninstalled the NVDA kexts, and installed an old Titan kext now it displays on my internal and recognizes my card in properties but still only allows a max of 1280x800 and thats if i put Graphicsmode=1440x900x32 in the boot plist. These are just some more observations. I imagine its conflicting kexts..
But if i have the internal display working and showing my graphic chipset as being correctly recognized, what else could be holding back the resolution?