Got it! I used this magical kext here
http://forum.insanelymac.com/index.php?act=attach&type=post&id=19616

I had to BOTH install the kext the normal way AND replace a an older version in IOATAFamily.kext

This also resolved a random problem where my IDE drive was detected as only 128GB when it was really much larger

Zepheroth, PLEASE consider including this updated kext in rev2!

--Drew