ok, so you can run OS X in safe mode but can't get your 9500GT working. Have a look at the insanelymac forum: http://forum.insanelymac.com/index.php?showtopic=133989
This topic deals with your card and if you have questions, we can discuss it here or over at insanelymac.

The post within this thread that you should pay most attention with is #45. Hope to hear it is working soon.

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